{"id":2619,"date":"2026-06-05T17:47:48","date_gmt":"2026-06-05T17:47:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rizeldelano.com\/chronicles\/?p=2619"},"modified":"2026-06-05T17:47:48","modified_gmt":"2026-06-05T17:47:48","slug":"the-ideal-self","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rizeldelano.com\/chronicles\/the-ideal-self\/","title":{"rendered":"The Ideal Self"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>The Ideal Self<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Each individual exists, perceives, experiences, thinks, and acts in and through his\/her own body within a specific environment, and therefore form unique points in time and space.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s thus only you who have the capacity for original and creative rationality and thought when wanting to create a life ideal for yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Stimulating a more creative approach towards self (self-concept + personal growth + development + self-actualisation) \u2013 your wellbeing (happy and content) and living in conducive environments (city, home and immediate spaces) are thus cornerstones for a healthy wellbeing state.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Humans have these vital components to consider for an optimised lifestyle and feelings of wellbeing:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Concept of self (the issues of who am I, what\u2019s my purpose, my values, what do I believe in\u2026 and how I feel, emote and act upon it)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Belief barriers and blocks (your issues or beliefs that prevent you from living the life you want or from enjoying it)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Beauty as in looking and feeling good (your appearance: self-presentation, grooming, aesthetics, personal styling, recovery therapies and self care rituals)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Health as in nutrition, movement and longevity (eliminate health problems that drag your quality of life into the gutter and shorten your lifespan)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Emotional intelligence (express yourself well in all scenarios with others, and controlling anger, sadness, overwhelm or coping with life\u2019s challenges)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Behaviour (as in your actions, what comes out your mouth and how others perceive you, your ethical and reputational image)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Relationships (attract, build, and maintain healthy relationships with everyone you meet \u2013 your superiors, subordinates, colleagues, peers, friends, family and your loved ones + community for a valued legacy)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Career and skills development\u00a0 (having access to business resources and build inner skills that allow you to optimally perform at your career and raise your income potential)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Income streams (having systems in place that allow you to use your income streams to create security for you and family, financial freedom + wealth)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Investments + saving + wealth building management (manage it, grow it, protect it)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Surrounding spaces (having a home base that nourishes at a very deep level and work environments that optimise performance and productivity)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you want to be happy and successful you have to learn how to optimise all these components with focus and an effective time management framework, and implement keystone habits strategies that result in flow, resilience and grit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Easier written than executed\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trying to be healthy and happy with an optimised lifestyle, while having to consider also the needs of others living with you in a partnership, love, marriage or working environments and in all types of business scenario relationships\u2026. can become extremely intricate and complex when you just try to be yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Which self? Which role?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As you have so many different roles to play and in each, you may not have one true authentic self, but several schemas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">First determine your concept of self and all its constituents in each scenario.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">From this baseline craft your prescription of how you would proceed into achieving what you want or desire \u2013 it could be anything in your life, career or personal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The greatness of your actions, success and accomplishments, will then depend on your understanding and application of these underlying current, beliefs and principles required for what it is you want \u2013 or need to be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Meaning, the principles are different for each achievement you want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For a person to achieve self-actualisation they must be in a state of congruence. This means that self-actualisation occurs when your&nbsp; ideal self (who you would like to be) is congruent with your actual behavior (self-image).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Ideal Self Each individual exists, perceives, experiences, thinks, and acts in and through his\/her own body within a specific environment, and therefore form unique&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_customify_content_layout":"","_customify_sidebar":"","_customify_page_header_display":"","_customify_disable_header":"","_customify_disable_header_top":"","_customify_disable_header_main":"","_customify_disable_header_bottom":"","_customify_disable_page_title":"","_customify_disable_content_vertical_padding":"","_customify_disable_footer_top":"","_customify_disable_footer_main":"","_customify_disable_footer_bottom":"","_customify_breadcrumb_display":"","_customify_header_transparent_display":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[19],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2619","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-identity"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rizeldelano.com\/chronicles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2619","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rizeldelano.com\/chronicles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rizeldelano.com\/chronicles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rizeldelano.com\/chronicles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rizeldelano.com\/chronicles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2619"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/rizeldelano.com\/chronicles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2619\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2620,"href":"https:\/\/rizeldelano.com\/chronicles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2619\/revisions\/2620"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rizeldelano.com\/chronicles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2619"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rizeldelano.com\/chronicles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2619"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rizeldelano.com\/chronicles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2619"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}